About marriage.

The Topic of my choice I would like to discuss about today is marriage. A lot  of people want to get married, but the truth is does everyone know how to manage a marriage? Is marriage for everyone? Marriage is a holy institution and forms a base for a family. Today marriage has lost meaning to many people, and they do not view it as a holy institution anymore, and they think that they canter into marriage and exit at their pleasure. Disrespect to the marriage institution is the reason as to why there has been an increase in the divorce cases and the children caught up in a mess are the ones who suffer most. The creator of the women of faith blog must have noticed this trend in society and purposed to empower women to act as pillars in their families and take care of their marriages. According to the Bible, a marriage is a covenant t between two parties and only death is supposed to break the covenant because God hates divorce. He is the founder of the marriage institution and the manufacturer for any product is usually the one to give the guidelines for the usage of the product. Therefore, just as God instructs, divorce should not be an option when finding solutions to problems in the marriage. Christ based marriages are always successful because every time there was a problem in the marriage the partners will join hands and pray about it then God will intervene and make everything come back to normal. The women of faith blog encourages women to be prayerful and make sure they influence their partners to make peace in the family. When the families are at peace, the church will beat peace and the whole nation will experience harmony. The family is the basic unit in a great nation, Like my mum and late dad were a good example of how marriage should be, they were married for over 34 years, and their marriage were still fresh and exciting.

How to keep your marriage look fresh.
The two parties have to love themselves, because if there’s love between the two parties, it will give them a kind of hope and confident to move on and another point is trust! There must be a trust, in a marriage. And a marriage without trust is like “flogging a dead horse”. Another thing is sex, in terms of sex, the man has as to satisfy the woman in bed. Another big point is faith, you have to build your mindset that whom you are getting married to will be there with you forever, and you have to involve God into your marriage, because he’s the author of marriage. Another thing is, don’t involve third party to your marriage, if there’s an issue in ur marriage, talk to God or your spiritual pastor, so he could encourage you, rather than talking to friends or family. and another thing is cleanest, cleanest play a big role in marriage, some women or men don’t know how to clean themselves unlike before they got married, after they get married, they start bringing out some wired behavior these will make a marriage break, always look good, look presentable so at the end the parties don’t lack love from each others. the both parties have to be humble, there’s nothing like humility, maybe if the woman gets more money than the man then she might start looking down, or the other way round. And also both partners should learn how to control their selves, learn how to remove anger and try to tolerate some things.

So these are my little advice to married people and I hope these help your marriage. 


Women of faith blog

Hello friends, so today I will be writing from the ”women of faith” blog today. In women of faith blog, there is five categories, the home, who are we, community, store, blog, give, and contact page. The Creator of the women of faith blog created the blog with the aim of empowering women to be strong pillars in the society. The blog aims at bringing believers together to build the body of Christ. The blog encourages women to hold on to God and always pray for their marriages. The reason is that the creator of the blog understood that strong families are what bring about a strong nation. The blog has numerous articles of inspiration and also testimonies and examples of women who have been very successful in life. All articles have something in common in that they encourage women to uphold values such as love, faith, hope, gratitude and peace. Women of faith blog have led to the establishment of the women of faith radio which reaches out to women all over the world and share the word of God with them. It has been there for around 20 years, and everyone can access the radio from the blog. The blog also has a provision where an individual can submit their prayer request so that they can join hands with other women all over the world and help them to pray for a difficult situation that they might be going through. Women all over the world are free to subscribe to be ambassadors of women of faith group in different parts of the world. They are supposed to pay $33.33 to become ambassadors. The blogs also have one interesting verse that is useful in uplifting the spirits of women I enjoyed everything about this blog, I guess it’s one of my favourite faith blog. I feel like every women should read this blog, because it will educate women and make them live their best life in a Godly way, women should not allow any circumstances determine how they see life, I recommend this blog to women, it helps women to be fed with the biblical word, in terms of  what their perceptive or their mind set is on life, and for women to live their best life, is by making decision to change their lives for the better. By changing things women don’t like about ourselves, and making things look more better, like our mind set, or eating habit.
This blog taught me and made me realize how I can live my best life intention for God. Why I am uniquely made in this life,  I am a young woman of faith, a young woman who loves God and just tell people that they can live this unique life, creative life that God calls us to live, you can still live in the street dope, and love God, you don’t have to be super holy, or be in a certain way before you can love God. God we meet you where you are, and it happens so easily and you won’t even realize it.
I want to know what it means to live your own best life, and still love God. Leave your comment down below and don’t forget to check out ‘’Women of faith blog’’ Until next time! Be great.

Blog tour 2

Blog Post Response

Lauren’s Blog Post

So the second blog on my name below is Lauren’s Blog, after reading about this post, I was really amazed and I got to learn new different things I didn’t know much about before, there are a lot of helpful points Lauren (I recommend everyone should read), made in her blog, but the one that got to me was how she talked about the differences between the pro-life and pro-choice.

Lauren goes on and illustrates the immense differences between being pro-life and pro-choice. She goes on to talk how pro-life is characterized as believing that every potential child deserves the right to live and abortions should not be legal. However, people that are pro-choice believe that every woman should be able to decide to keep or terminate her pregnancy because it is her body. It is important to understand the argument that both sides have so that you understand the information at hand as well as your own stance on abortion. Those that are pro-life believe that abortion is murder, as an attempt to kill an unborn child under the United States law is sent to prison.

Additionally, if a woman chooses to get pregnant, then she should deal with the consequences of her actions. If she is not ready to have a child, then she can give the baby up for adoption. Those that are pro-life also advocate the sentiment that abortion defies the word of God, as no distinction is made between a fetus and a baby in the Bible.

Those that are pro-choice feel very differently from those that are pro-life. For example, pro-choice advocates assert that in Roe v. Wade having access to safe abortion was considered a fundamental right. Also, being able to choose to have an abortion gives a woman freedom over her body, and it cannot be regulated by the government. Women will continuously seek abortions, even if they are not legal, as was demonstrated before Roe v. Wade where numerous women died after receiving botched abortions from doctors. Providing women with a safe space to have an abortion is crucial for their health, as even if abortions were illegal women would seek them out.Abortions also give mothers the choice of ending a pregnancy that would be harmful for them to the fetus.

At First, I thought this blog would be complicated to read, to understand and not an interesting one to me, but then I started to see myself in this situation, I started to connect on her blog, and yes it makes more sense to me now! I like how she shares her personal opinion about abortion, well I am neither for nor against abortion. Abortion exists, it is a thing. I feel like the decision should be left up for the pregnant woman to decide because in future she will be the one to face the consequence, nevertheless, Laura made this topic more clear to me. Her word choice was amazing I feel some women who are for or against abortion should read her blog before they made a decision in their lives,

I adamantly find this blog interesting and educative, I look forward to learning more on Lauren’s Blog, I would recommend these blog for people who are facing these challenges in life, and they don’t know the right decision to make.

I would advise you to take your time and read Lauren’s blog for full understanding.


Blog Tour 1

Juan’s Blog

Hello friends, so this week’s blog is going to be something different, since this is a ‘’blog tour’’ week.I am to, write down two blog posts of my classmate, which are below my name at writeme, so the first one that is below my name, is Juan’s blog. I’ll love to share with you interesting topic she wrote about.

So basically Juan’s blog is about how we can build our Routine and live healthy, which is a very interesting topic to read.

The ‘’Supplements blogspot’’, post got my attention, this was very informative and interesting to me, I learned a lot and would like to share with you my friends.

Juan goes on to discuss how many people workout, they often ask themselves “Should I take supplements before I work out?” Supplements have been shown to improve the performance of people that are exercising. Also, those that are looking to gain weight can take different supplements as well as eat protein powder shakes to gain weight and muscle mass while working out. However, each needs to research what proteins and supplements are going to be right for their body. This is importantas not all proteins and supplements are going to work the same for each person trying to gain weight and muscle mass. One supplement to research is pre-workout. This is normally taken to give the person exercising an extra boost of energy. It has been found that those under 18 should not take this, as it can have health ramifications. Additionally, considering there are different kinds of protein powders, each will need to buy protein powder for what they are looking for in a workout. If someone is looking to get toned, then they should buy a protein powder to get toned.

     It is all up to the person exercising as to if they want to take pre-workout,supplements, and utilize protein powder before and after workouts. They should develop a comprehensive workout plan and decide if they want to incorporate these supplements and proteins into their life. These could make a big difference depending on what the person is looking for. If the person is simply looking to get toned, then they should find a protein powder for this, takelean supplements that will help them get toned, and develop a workout plan to  one different parts of their body. 

Juan made this blog fun to read, I really like how she shares her personal story on how she learned how to work out and gain muscle, these really motivated me, and guys I think I am going to try her method and see the result, and yes I’m sure and praying to God, it will work out! Well you know as they say, always trust the process,  

One thing I notice about Juan’s blog is that she kept it very simple, and well written, her points were outstanding too, one can tell that she put a lot of efforts.

I would recommend people who are willing to stay healthy to read Juan’s blog, it’s a life- changing my friends.

Thank me later 🙂 


About the book of Genesis

Summary: Today I want to talk about the book of Genesis. The book is divided into two different parts, First of all, you have chapter 1 to 11, where God is dealing with mankind as a whole and second of all, you have chapter 12-20where God zoomed in, on the life of one man Abraham and his family.

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In the first two chapters, we have the creation and the story. It interesting how God created. First 3 days he created spaces for things like the sky, land seas and so on, and in the last six days, he put things like the bird, light, fish, and mankind in those spaces. But then in chapter 3 everything went down because Adam and Eve ate from the forbidden tree. Then in Chapter 6, the next major event is the flood. God said I can see where all these is going And
‘’Gen 6:5’’God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. I am going to wipe on mankind and start again, with the man named Noah. Finally, in chapter 11 this is where the story of Babel came and people said ‘’I am going to name a name for myself’’ and build a tower that reaches up to the heavens,  and God confused them all and start making them speak different languages.

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GEN 12:2 God saidto Abraham that he wants to make a conversant with him, that he wants him to bealight in the darkness that surrounds him so when he, so when he bless him somuch the nation around him will be attracted to his blessing which will give himthe opportunity to point the people to God. Abraham had 2 sons one was named Ishmaeland Isaac and the promise went through Isaac and Issacs had 2 sons named Jacoband Esau and the promise went through Jacob, Jacob had 12 sons and one of themwas Josef. And Josef happened to be Jacob favorite son because he was born byone of his favorite wife name Richard. So the book ends with severe Famine thatspread across the face of the earth, and the only food in the face of the earthis in Egypt. To which Josef has total control over distributing this food. Soas soon as Josef family finds out there was food in Egypt, theymoved to Egypt to get food. So that was how the Jewish nation moved to Egypt  

Connection: I want to highlight 3 points that you can learn today.

Creation: God can take something we don’t believe in and speak a word a create something beautiful from it.

The second lessons even if God forgive there are conquences to face in life. Because if you remember when Adam and Eve sinned, they became ashamed around each other, they felt guilty before God. They start hiding before God, and were afraid of God, they began to blame one and another and ended up making up for their sins by doing good work. Such as covering their selves with fig leaves

The last lesson is Grace. If you notice the fig leaves Adam and Eve used to cover themselves was not good enough in God’s sight so what God did is that, he went to kill an innocent animal and use the animal skin to cover them. This teaches us that even if Adam and Eve were guilty and deserve punishment from God, God showed something that was innocent and decided to take his punishment out on that instead which is a for shallowing of what he was going to do for us through Jesus Christ on the cross.


About me

Oh Hello, friends,

I’m Mary joy but friends call me Joy, I am a Christian, a Jesus Lover and a fan of makeup. It also happens to be that my major is nursing.

I created Mary Joy (which is basically my name) that I can actually call my own. I specifically created it talk about things that are interested in me

This blog is a faith-based blog with a splash of lifestyle posts.

So join me in this journey of my life.

Just some fun facts about me: 

  • I love reading the bible a lot
  • I’m a very Ambidextrous human. Like seriously, I can do a lot of things with both hands.
  • I love to talk only when I am familiar with the someone.
  • I was born on January 13th, 1997.
  • I’m kind of a mix of introverted and extroverted
  • When I’m introverted, I like being alone, love staying in my apartment and just read the bible, meditate in the words then sing some Christian songs or I also love watching Netflix series
  • Meanwhile, when I’m extroverted, I can make you laugh a lot and you will always live to remember that day lol! (People always say I am a funny girl)
  • I enjoy minding my business and love drinking water lol
  • I love cooking for my friends and family
  • Just buy me a Zara gift card for Christmas, and we will be best friends (HAHA just kidding) but I love present.
  • I love fashion.
  • Biology was one of my favorite subjects back then in high school, however, it happens to be my worst subject now in College.
  • I always want to be my boss and I want to run my business someday.
  • I am from Nigeria
  • I am very good at saving money.
  • I don’t like being in my comfort zone I am that girl that always looking forward to a “what is next to do?”
  • I don’t talk much in large crowds, but small groups are usually where my personality comes out.
  • Most of the people think that I am a very shy person but I am actually the opposite.
  • Victorious is still my best TV series EVER!
  • My favorite movie would forever remain The ‘lord of the ring’
  • I give pretty great advice. Trust me, I really do.
  • Making a decision has been something I am not good at, but once I make my mind on something, it is hard to change my mind.
  • I would love to cut my hair someday, I’m kind of curious about how it would turn out.
  • I love dressing cute and taking pictures.
  • I love traveling and meeting new people, also, learning others cultures.. so please take me along with you.
  • I’ve dealt with depression, and it was not fun, but thank God, he got me.
  • I have a trust issue. Because in the past. I used to trust people a lot of people but it happens to me that, most of them disappointed me.
  • I keep a small circle of true friend.
  • I have more male friends than female friends and trust me I love every bit of it.
  • I would eat fries with frosty, Every day!

Now that you know a few things about me, I will be excited to get to know about you too. Follow me here on my blog. And I will be happy if you are willing to share somethings about you…